After two and a half years avoiding men I met a guy I really like who lives a 13 hour plane ride away. We met at a work event for one night really hit it off, then met up again for 3 nights a month later in a hotel in Europe. Its now a month after and we plan to meet again in around 4 weeks. We are in daily contact, more via texting than talking though, which I miss as it makes me feel detached from him more than talking would.

Problem is that I stupidly got very drunk and had a one night stand which I feel really bad about. I think it was just that I was missing him so much and needed the human contact. I wasn't thinking straight though and I regret it. Problem is should I tell him. We get on so well I don't want to feel I have secrets from him, but would I only be telling him to make myself feel better. Its so early on does it matter, or am I worrying unduly?