I went to see two different therapists for a consult about my current therapist. The first was not helpful and wanted me to start therapy with HIM right away, instead of continue my current T. He started talking about red flags, etc. The second therapist was much more mellow and talked about how it can be therapeutically appropriate for a therapist to tell a client how the therapist feels. We talked about how the boundaries in my current T relationship were good, and the reasons to continue with current T versus changing. The second T was actually helpful in getting me to see both the upside and downside of continuing with the current T.