Well, he finally opened up to you and then you whammied him with telling him you don't love him. OUCH! He is terribly gun shy and very ambivalent. I don't mean to be overly harsh on you. You probably panicked too. But that would be my analysis of why he is acting as he is. Do you know yet why you acted as you did? That might help you open up a conversation with him ( possibly including a counselor) that you could explain AND explain why it would not happen again. Dang it, I feel for the guy. Call me weird.