Good on you QuietCalamity, we all have to do what we need to move forward....and that is the untimate objective. I took back my life by 'total unacknowledgment' of what my abusers did to me. Thought about a letter or 'victim impact statement'.....but turning my back and walking toward a life where they didn't exist was immensely healing for me....they are such scum, that they don't even deserve my wrath.
As you said, such a letter would be only for your own peace of mind, not an invitation for them to comment or attempt apologies........How it makes you feel is all that matters.
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The devil whispered in my ear, "You cannot withstand the storm." I whispered back, "I am the storm."
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