Well, "see you tomorrow @ 5:00" sounds to me like a way of saying "I'm still your T".
I think it was a caring message; he respected your wish to not talk and he reminded you he is still there for you and will be there tomorrow at 5:00, too.
I think you think you can control him/people? Might be an interesting topic for a session or three?
I'm sorry you're feeling so uneasy and hurting. I know you and T will sort it out because you have sorted out so much already. You report excellent sessions and I truly hope tomorrow is another excellent session for you!
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