Hi hvert. You seem to be so much like me. I obsess over too many negative things. I also imagine negative outcomes on perceived slights. I get paranoid. I work in a very stressful job. I, too must learn how to rise above negativity. I like the idea of the snap club and I may give it a try. At the very least it can help to have some sense of control. I feel like that sense of control is missing in my life.