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Old Nov 07, 2014, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Freewilled View Post
Here's another take on it:

Would you see an obese T?
What about a T who smokes cigarettes?

To me, these are the same as SI...coping or self-punishment tools. It's just that SI is not socially acceptable. And they all can be visible on the outside.

Just a thought....
obesity yes because. As far as smoking goes I was actually thinking about this a couple weeks ago when T mentioned that she was a long time smoker. The only reason she quit is because of the health risk. I really don't think I could see them if they did. I am very sensitive to the smell of smoke and it makes me sick to my stomach. So to go into a room with the smell of smoke would not be relaxing or comforting for me.

When I first met my husband he was a smoker. He quit because he knew I hated the smell.
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