I was wondering if it is normal or common for those with BPD to have a poor visual memory. What I mean by that is can you recall what family members look like or are you just remembering a photo? What about friends? Could you describe your friend to me? How about your T?

The last question is the reason for my post actually. I can't recall what my T looks like. I could describe his shoes but not his face. I can imagine how he walks and stands but I can't tell you what his face looks like.

So to answer my own question... I can recall someone I see often. Then it gets worse the less I see you. It also bothers me that I cannot recall what my dead mother looks like. I can describe a photo of her but not what I remember of her face. I can recall her hands.