My T doesn't self disclose often at all..... But today I jokingly asked if she had her Xmas tree up yet.
She said no, have I :-)

She than said how last year she finally realised real trees were the cause of her cough she gets every Xmas, and that she knows now she has an allergy to real trees.
She added she was going to make one out of wood this year.

I sat and thought about that for a while, than said, you could put barb wire round it.

T said, you know, that's a good idea 💡...
. That moment of sharing felt nice...