I'm responding to a thought a few pages back...
I don't expect my T to be untouched by trauma. I just don't want him having had my same trauma. He's not perfect and he has his things like every person in the world and at the same time, his things are my things and that is a HUGE relief to me.
I prefer a T who is different to me in a lot of ways. Idk why, I just do.
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“It's a funny thing... but people mostly have it backward. They think they live by what they want. But really, what guides them is what they're afraid of.” ― Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed
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