It sounds like you were challenging the t for who had ultimate control of the sessions. And that she is saying, if you dont want to come - if you want to cancel sessions - then she accepts your decision. She should have warned you ahead of time that that would be an irreversible decision. I was told something similar in a group therapy situation. When you said you wanted time to think about things, after you sent an email criticizing her - maybe she thought you meant you wanted to think about malpractice, and she didnt feel it was a good idea to continue with someone who thought so poorly of her and her abilities as a t. Because basically i agree with you - you should be able to tell a t you dont like this or that about them. But if you dont like a LOT of things about them, then maybe they just arent the right t for you, and you should try to find a better match. There are other fish in the sea. Its not like youre stuck with them like we were with our parents.