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Originally Posted by MrPink182
I'm so jealous you guys get to email and text your Ts....
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It seems all good and well at first, but have you read the many, many anxious posts that deal with:
- The therapist not replying back timely
- Disappointment with the content in the replies
- Misunderstanding on both ends
- Regrets about what was said via email or text
If you can manage between sessions and keep a connection, you're saving yourself a lot of headache and stress by not engaging.
My T1 allowed email communications, but wasn't consistent with replies. Emailing caused me more anxiety than what I was hoping to achieve with the email in the first place. I put up my own boundary that I wouldn't contact him unless it was an emergency. Generally, I was able to stick to it with a few lapses. Stress level went way down, even though it was hard to resist the impulse to email.
T2 hasn't said one way or another if she allows emails. If I need to reschedule, I text her. I'm not even going there.
Back to the original questions - I think emailing at any time is fine since T's will typically get to emails when they can. Non-emergency texting I would reserve for your T's normal business hours.