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Originally Posted by Depletion
That's sounds sweet in away, but sometimes I hear things like that, and I just think, Bull S#!t you are just ignoring me because there is something you'd rather do at the moment, or you didn't have a clue how to respond the what I said. Can't they just say, I was busy living life, and hadn't got to it yet, but you are important to me.
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This made me think... isn't the problem really that by not responding at all, you're no longer having to "sit with" and contain the original problem, but now you're also having to cope with the lack of response?
Again, even a simple reply like, "Can you sit with these feelings a bit and see how that feels?" might help alleviate that (being ignored) part.