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Old Nov 08, 2014, 02:48 AM
BobbyDavis BobbyDavis is offline
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Originally Posted by Shy Introvert View Post
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I'm with him for lots of reasons. He does take care of me, and I know that he does love me even though he rarely says it. He shows his love through actions. Honestly, I don't even like sex that much. I'm almost asexual. It just has very little appeal to me. I like using a vibrator instead of having actual sex. It's so much better IMHO. I've kissed a few guys before and felt nothing. I had a loser ex before I got married and he didn't do much for me either.

Sex is not a big deal to me. It's demeaning and it's just an unpleasant chore to me. I have issues with my looks and my body too. I don't want to be alone. When you have issues like I do, your options are extremely limited. I'm content with him. That's the best that I can ever hope for.
I just want to add to this.

My first girlfriend and I never had sex because she was saving herself for marriage and my Wife and I didn't have sex until after we were married because she was afraid of having sex again and even though we make love now and I enjoy it I would have stayed with her if things hadn't changed because sex is not the be all and end of all of my relationships and I like cuddling and kissing just as much. If sex is not that important to you and you are happy with your relationship just let it be. I think society places a lot of emphasis on sex nowadays and my sister is always saying how oversexualised things are now compared to what they were when we were younger.