I am so sorry you are going through this. Last summer I very unexpectedly lost both my cat and dog within a couple of weeks (they were both 13) and shortly after my therapist abandoned me. He didn't even really think losing my pets was that important. It was a horrible, awful time. I felt so helpless and lost and alone.

I think if your therapist has told you to contact her then you should. She can help you through this.