thanks Amanda, but the problem is I told her this on the first meeting.. She asked me how our rules should look like, what I expect from her, so I told her I'm very emotional, and I need some time to put myself together sometimes and if its a problem if I stay longer, she should tell me 10 min before that we soon will be ending.. but she didn't. For insurance I can have only 1h therapy, and probably only psychodynamic therapy which doesn't work for me, still looking for any way to get cognitive behavioral..