I Have heard these suggestions many times. Read below these suggestions are for people who are not like us. We are damaged goods that no one wants or will love us. Don't waste your time on trying-my experience is people will just continue to reject you. What you need to do is "accept that you will be alone the rest if your life" then try to find things that make you happy. I have been told this by several therapists. When u do not receive the required love in your development years there will be no one in your life after. It is a a bad sentence. This is the only place u can come and be heard. Good luck with your new reality. I just sit in my home. I tried all of these suggestions with no success.