I have to agree to disagree with last poster. A relationship takes 2 people and we may want it a lot like me but if the other people see us as different they r the ones that back off. Fear has nothing to do with this. I think it is helpful to validate your pain and show the truth so you can make solid decisions about your life.
If you have had our disorder long enough people telling you the truth is in your best interest. Why not be open to the realities of this disorder and not hide. I have had many years of experience that has given me much insight and knowledge.