I was actually rendered speechless after reading this thread. Took me a while to be able to return and type...


When I think of all you've been through during your marriage and post marriage, Idk how you've managed to survive.


I do know this though:


I am damn proud of you, you have come a long way since joining as that lost and bent soul.


You've clawed your way out of his mental and emotional clutches, deleted his brainwashing, and installed new positive software. You've done your absolute best to recover and evolve into the Hammy we all know and love today.


You my dear deserve a bloody medal, trophy or wax model or something. You really do.


I hope you give yourself credit for the journey you have embarked on and the milestones you have reached.


Ps. Seems organized to me, but maybe someone else can identify something my tired mind missed.