I eventually learned, when I couldn't get understood, to fall back and regroup and present myself in my T's language/way of being, try to get over to her neck of the woods so I could get understood and could understand her properly. It often doesn't seem fair to me but I still have to choose whether I want the rest of the world to understand me or I want to be "right" and in my own little corner, alone. What are you aiming for in your sessions? I want to "make sense" to others so put up with some teasing/frustration from my husband to this day and make myself stop and reroute thinking and words so he (and others) can understand. I'm my own translator :-)