I trust her judgment and she trusts mine. It's due to our agreement that we will both be open and honest, and that we have honored that for over a yr now. We always make sure we're on the same page and ask for clarification if we're not.

But that doesn't mean we always agree or like what the other person has to say. Example: every week she brings up DBT group (which isn't an option at this point). And every week I roll my eyes at her and she brings it to my attention and laughs. She knows I don't ever want to go and I know she's right that I need it. So if it ever is available to me, I'll go...as she likes to put it "kicking and screaming".