You're right, I have gotten some good advice. It's been a few days, the hubs and I have chatted things out and it's possible we have an arrangement that works out for both of us. While we're sitting on the possibility of exploring it together, more talking is of course going to be happening. The last thing I want to do is ruin my marriage.

Thank you both again for your ideas and opinions. At the very least it gave me the courage to bring up the conversation on steady ground.