Hello dancing lady.
I think in terms of a bf gf relationship i agree with you although for some it does work. I dont want that kind of relatinship as a bpd sufferer not right now anyway as it has caused so much pain. But the post was about being loved. This doesnt just mean bf gf it could be a family member or a friend.
Also there are some bpd sufferers on here who have a partner and children there fore saying it can never happen and just get used to the idea can be seen as a little harsh or disheartening.