I think having BPD is easier for the newbies. The damage gets worked through earlier, better treatment options, less traumatic therapeutic interventions. If you are young take advantage of all that is now out there. For me an old timer it is really too late and I will just wait to die. I have many health problems so the suffering won't be much longer.
All I read is people should be compassionate wow that sounds like everyone won't be my friend or lover they will just pity me.