Yes, I think itīs quite likely this way, that she together with her judgement about the treatment per se also took into account some personal values. Of course it is that way, that my T has the "answer" but as Iīve already spoken to her and just got to hear vague reasons and explanations I didnīt feel that there was a way to really get her to answer me.
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Originally Posted by SnakeCharmer
Paula wrote:
Your T could have had conscious or unconscious reactions to you and your actions based on her own life history, things that reminded her of difficult feelings or problems she didn't want to deal with for reasons of her own.
Hankster made excellent points that also make a lot of sense to me.
And as Elsewhere said, unless you go to the last session she offered you, you'll never have any answers or closure, just guesses. We could all be making incorrect guesses here because we don't have enough info. The only person who can supply that information is your ex-T.
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