Ok, now I know that's probably not the best choice of words on this site(I'm calmer now to be able to see that), but I don't know how else to title this.
Well, my coworker who just earlier was fine and amiable, and in fact is always friendly with me, blew up at me over something minor and just kept giving me death stares the rest of the day and was very snappy. Really made me feel like ****- I'm a great worker, never been in trouble with management, get compliments from the mangers and such so it just makes me feel pretty ******. nd to think, I practically knocked over another coworker accidentally and apologized once initially and then actually spoke to her later once things had calmed down a bit(it was super busy and we work at a restaraunt) and she was totally fine. So then I have this situation with my other coworker who all of a sudden acting strangely enraged to the point of it being insane and not communicating or wiilling to work through things and it was over something minor.
I call her behavior 'psycho' because it's reminiscent of a forer 'best friend' who was fake (I can see it now) and suddenly went from being my best friend and always being there for me to suddenly hating me and trying to aggravate me into a physical match when I pushed back and stopped letting her boss me around. So yeah. I'm done. I have too many other **** I'm dealing with right now, I don't need another coworker bully. It seems wherever I go, there's always one- ok, like 80% of the jobs I've worked at. It's doesn't help that I'm running on little over 3 hours of sleep from not being able to fall back asleep for some reason when woken up in the middle of the night so I'm a bit emotionally raw anyway.
People are lucky I'm so nice- but I get so upset, they don't know me, what I've been through, what I'm going through, and yet there continue to always be people out there that like to push me around. People, friends and strangers have told me that I have the patience of an angel- not on little sleep I don't.
Of course I would never lose it at work, if anything I avoid a scene and confrontaion- it's not my thing. If I can't resolve conflict in a mature and civil manner, then what the point of trying to interact with the person? Anyway, I'm just glad I don't work tomorrow, and perhaps I'll talk to one of the managers about today's events