If there is resistance or 'feelings' then that's a good sign that there is work to be done. That is you don't *want* to talk about something but you feel you should, that's resistance or an enactment of a defense.

If you're (a) bored, (b) feeling zero connection (not negative feelings- that can be a sign of transferential enactment,) then its likely that therapy isn't working with this T.