thats really tough-its something i havent found an answer for yet.
the only thing that ive found to work some, is my cats(in this way and many other ways), but ive gotten to where when someone asks "dont you have a friend or two?" i say no, and then reference to my cats. i often say "i dont ever have any HUMANs come over or spend the night. and my lease doesnt specify that my "overnight visitors" have to be a human." and often theyve come to help when ive been "down in the dumps". also they dont ask me why i do certain things, and they dont judge me for the issues i have. and it makes them a perfect friend for me. i usually have to specify that my "friends" are my "cats". or else the convo can get kind of confusing because they are thinking of someone that i could goto for help and such, while my cats are dependant on me. and dont have anyway for me to borrow money from. lol

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what would a friend look like to you?
maybe that can be a starting ground for finding a type of friend that you need and want and would feel comfortable just being who you are, around them.?

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