So off topic it's not helping the original poster. Disappointing that this entire thread has been hijacked.

I am so sorry for the original poster.

Of course we're all allowed different opinions. It's healthy, it's natural - and that's okay.

When I post here, I think it's great to hear different opinions. It makes me consider possibilities from all angles.

I hope that the original poster can read through all of these comments and make a balanced decision after weighing up all the opinions expressed on the topic at hand. They're insightful, some of them helpful and will give he/she something to consider, which is why they came here.

So here's to the original poster:

I hope you have gained some insight from others personal stories and can take away some parts that are useful to you. We're all dynamic and at the end of the day, you must do what benefits you the most and is useful to you. I hope that you find some solace. All members of this group would like to support and offer you suggestions. Be well.