I love my roommate. She's my best friend. Shes been dating this guy for 5 years and he's an alcoholic and abuser. We've been living together since June and in that time, except for the first month, he has remained sober. Recently he had a relapse. She said from the beginning that if he ever drank again she would be done.. I always doubt this. They have a very unhealthy relationship and are very co dependent on eachother. So anyway I guess this morning he was sober because she invited him over to the house. Him and I have are had problems in the past because I don't like him. But even last night he texts her all these horrible things and shes still talks to him. It makes me sick to watch and it's almost pathetic. She can't go one day without talking to him. And he's so mean to her and bascialy says he hates and her and she tell me all the time that she hates him.

I don't want her and I to fight about him as she has enough drama going on but I don't know how to detach myself from the situation. It makes me sick to my stomach to watch them do this and just how broken she gets over him. Were in a lease so moving out is not an option.

I don't know how to handle this. I'm not sure what to do, I'm trying so hard to be supportive and not walk away or put a wall up between her and I like so many people have done because of him. How do i deal with this situation?! Help!