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Old Nov 09, 2014, 01:24 PM
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And I'd argue: negative feelings easily be an in-proportion, justified reaction to a real offense or provocation. There easily can be subtle power issues at play. And even more tricky, these provocations can be quite subtle.
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And to further complicate: there's no deity-on-high dictating what the correct reaction or proportions are.

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If you're (a) bored, (b) feeling zero connection (not negative feelings- that can be a sign of transferential enactment,) then its likely that therapy isn't working with this T.
Thanks for this!
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