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I like to give people tools find their own answers..it just works better.

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But it was like you just gave a hammer(by only stating how meds help ALL BPD--which is NOT true--- you mentioned nothing about therapy or anything else that has been proven to help)... instead of giving her a tool BOX! Meds can be one way but there are other alternatives of which you NEVER mentioned to this poster--- only one avenue was expressed when there are actually many avenues. (I know this is a "drug" forum but this whole site is about health-- is it not?-- so in regards to health-- I don't think it's very honest for a professional to post only one avenue)

That's my reason for speaking up-- I feel it's to the best interest of the person asking, to fully inform them of their options..... not just one option.

and what are some here so afraid of if I state, for some-- meds just aren't the answer? why can't I say that here???
why cant' meds along with alternatives be discussed? there is so much more to humans than just taking pills(IMO).....

mandy