Hi. I am SO sorry this happened to you. I am hoping you will find someone who is more deserving of your good self ( I can feel from the words you wrote that you are a good person). I think of some processes as walking through the fires. So we can get to the other side. I am not sure though that a time limit can be put on it. I do respect that you want to move beyond the feelings of anger etc. Just as long as you do not push them aside. Sometimes that can be great for a while. Until its time to deal with them. I guess what I am saying is there is a process. And i think sometimes that process has its own timeline. Because it may be about also healing other stuff attached to the feelings about husband ( who did not desserve someone as good as you )