I had a similar sort of reaction to Remeron. I didn't stick it out, so I can't say if it would have gone away for me. But the rage was just too frightening for me. (Insomnia, though, in my case...)

What I have read, though, is that in Europe, they start at a somewhat higher dose, and that avoids most of the adjustment effects we get in the States, so you might talk to your doctor about a faster titration schedule. (DO NOT do anything without checking it out with the doctor, though!)

Remeron behaves differently at different doses. They say the lower doses are more sedating, higher doses are more activating, etc. So, maybe it'll get more helpful if you can stick it out.

Good luck.