That is very good advice. thank you. I have always found it easiest to show most emotion and cry in front of the person I was dating. And I wish I could put my guard down enough in the rest of my relationships. Even though I have gone through a lot of emotion through my past relationships, I keep all of that emotion to myself and wish it didn't have to be that way. I don't know how to open up enough... my mind goes blank or I just freeze up.