How long have you known your T? What's your sense of her?

I think if I had a long, successful relationship with a T, and felt fairly confident that they were a decent human, I wouldn't let the stuff about the treatment facility get to me. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt that she wasn't involved in any bad things going on, and probably didn't know about them.

Did you know she was working there before, or did you only find out because she recently left? I'd almost think it would be worse if she were still working there, no?

*good luck*