Sorry. I didn’t notice more people replied to this thread.

I understand what you are saying but my sister has handled the situation now and while my friend is still hurt over her husband cheating on her she was happy my sister told her. When I look at it now if I put myself in her situation I would rather find out about it from a close friend right away than 10 or 20 years down the track and as much as I liked being friends with her husband I have to take her side in this because she is like family to me and I have known her much longer than her husband. I think if he is willing to cheat like that on his Wife of 16 years there is no telling what he would do to people he calls friends.