I think there's a difference between trusting and trying to force a commitment because of fears of abandonment. That would seem to me to be more about control. True trust, for me, would be perhaps more akin to faith that the T would always put their obligation and responsibility to me first. That does not mean that the future is guaranteed, nor that external circumstances cannot change. I would put my trust in the moments we were working together, and if the T were worthy of my trust, have faith that the process will unfold in my best interests.