I looked at some of your other threads and it looks like you're trying everything, but you're not receiving the support you need. I see it more as a failure of the system than a failure of yourself.

You mentioned 'emotionally unstable' as a diagnosis. That's the ICD diagnosis that correlates with the DSM diagnosis of borderline personality disorder. I don't know if you've read about it, but it's sadly one of the most stigmatized diagnoses. That could be a reason (albeit a horrible one) why you're not getting the help you need. I think it's best to try laying out everything on paper; I know what you mean by waiting for them to ask the right questions, but from personal experience, that rarely happens. It's tough, but you have to fight for yourself.