Yes, they wish for it too. But as my mom says, there maybe one guy in thousands here who would be able to understand. Yes, they could and would find someone for me who will love and care for me. The only variable in this factor is the fear that my ex will interfere and make our lives hell. Sadly, since our jobs (family's and mine) are here, we couldn't even relocate. My issue now is not that I couldn't cope with the end of the relationship. I mentally prepared myself for this for long and I am okay on that end. It is just a fear that my ex will wreak havoc on my life somehow - and he is clever enough to find everything, and yet remain undetected . My family asks me to ignore all his attempts at contacting me - which I've been doing well. I just wish for him to go on with his own life and leave him alone - and I just don't know how long it will take for someone like him to leave me alone.