@Hamster-Bamster: It will be quite easy to get him fired, but, the consequences will be awful. It will egg him on to not care as to what he does next, and he will end up harming me in every way possible.

@Sophiesmom: That's exactly what I am doing now - ignoring his threats, pleas and every other attempt of his'. I've not informed anything to mutual friends - I've just cut ties with them, and kept in only my own friends.
He is from a different place (his family lives elsewhere), and that sometimes is an issue - his family doesn't care to check up on him despite my family informing them of his behavior. If he did end up getting married, he would leave me alone, and he probably knows in his mind that I won't get him fired. The chances of his family becoming proactive and getting him married is nil right now he just keeps creeping me out - like I have almost gotten a new job (it will take a couple of months at least for certain procedures), yet it stresses me no end to keep checking on as to whether he is behind me in office, or his mails (which i am unable to block due to same domain issues - I could only redirect them to the deleted items folder).

I really wish I knew as to when this will end. This stresses me no end. I've lost weight, lost my appetite, and my girly cycle is all screwed up and delayed which further stresses me out if I am pregnant (is that even possible after two months' periods after the last time I had sex ).

I am just praying hard, and trying to calm myself for now by being in touch with my spiritual side - it is all I am able to do now.