Hi, I'm new here so it's good to meet everyone. I do need some advice, my marriage and family life is very stressful right now. I have bipolar and my teenage dauthger has depression. I have not worked for over a year and my wife is a very sucessful career women and mother to our 2 daughters, and she is a good one too. She is also the only caregiver of our mental illness. Me and my daughter bot see a pysh dr are on meds and in therpy. My wife takes her stress or life out on my daugther and me and we can't seem to do anything right, she nags us often. We both have our struggles with life, we do make mistakes and my wife seems to zero in on that. She feels that her as a caregiver to two mentally ill people is hard on her that it is on us. I don't know what to think about that. She loves us both very much but can't understand our illness. I have been a constant mild deprssion for over a year. I don't like not working and I have a little crying spell everyday, usually in the mornings after my my and daughters our gone for the day. I feel I need to protect my daughter from my wife. My main question is this, I want to move out of state take my daughter, maybe both with me and start my own business. My wife would then come later when she found a meaningful carrer choice. I would have family members to help me out, but I would be in charge of our lives. Is that a healthy thought for me to have or am just wanting to get away from my wife. My wife is in favor of this plan, but it could become even more stressful for her, won't get into details. Sorry that's alot to take in but just need some advice on any of those things. Thanks