Recently I've had a huge fight with my fellow. Yes, there are some things that needed to be addressed - seems the same issues as before. What happened as a result of this fight is that I was reawakened to my reactivity because I have borderline personality disorder.

I had to reevaluate the relationship according to that knowledge. Until I get my act together and raise issues calmly and fairly, how can I try to quit. I'll probably just do this relationship over again with someone else.

I also realized that the behavior of my mother that I detested all my life was the behavior I was displaying. Augh!! I felt like such an *******. So, I am owning up to this behavior and striving to work on it.

I have said this many times, "Relationships are the hardest thing we do in this life." What are your experiences with maintaining a relationship when an emotional storm comes over you? Would like to know. Thanks.