hi vnight
I don't know that you understand the severity of what you did and until you understand the severity and can express that to her, she will have a hard time forgiving you. I see the two mistakes. you pushed her into her greatest fear without caring about her feelings. what does that say about your respect for her and how you are going to treat her in the future? Then she is fearful again at the idea of having dinner with your parents and requests her sister to make her feel safe, and again you disregard her feelings, because you don't feel comfortable. both times you put your needs first and totally disregarded her discomfort. and you wonder why she is distant and questioning? welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome