I know you probably didn't mean it like that, but this bothers me and it sounds like you saying women can judge each other and tell each other what to do, but only men can't. From my personal experience, many women judge each other appearances too and even try to force their opinions on each other. An obvious case is a mother/daughter I know, a friend of my dad's, where the mother stopped the daughter from getting bigger breasts. The daughter was in her 20s btw, so not a child or teenager. I her case, it was "her body, but her mom's choice"...