This is crazy, my t shared with me that my h has issues ( no kidding). She thinks he might be OCD and ADD, he also has serious problems in regards to putting himself in contact with his feelings.
So, all the ****** (sorry) I've been through for 13 years, should I forgive and now be understanding and loving?

OH-MY-GOD.

So there, now do you still think he is abusive? Now there is a "medical excuse".

gab