I am very interested in keeping this thread going because I am having the same issue!! I am having an emotional affair with my co worker which has been going on for a couple years now. He is married and I have a boyfriend who I really love but this emotional connection I have with my co worker is very strong!! We talk and flirt ever day and I never believed he would cross the line and betray his marriage but recently he has shown signs f being very attracted to me as well and spends a lot of time lingering in my office chatting about everything!! I am so torn because I desperately want to be with him more but I know nothing good can come of it. It would hurt so many people!! I'm very tortured by my feelings for him and just feel sick inside!!