Oh jeez. The first time we talked about it was the week I remembered, I couldn't explain what was going on, he asked, I said I wasn't sure. He asked me before I remembered and I said "not that I know of"
When we really got into the thick of it I would get a lot of "it's not your fault... Do you need to hear it again? It's not your fault... Even if you feel unlovable, can you accept that someone else thinks you're lovable? ( that was a really big perspective changer.).

My t is crazy comforting and kinda changes his tone of voice and talks really slow. Typically that would annoy me, but it's comforting.