When people assume that it is trendy or somehow glamorous to have a MI, I am starting to believe it is just another way of putting people who struggle with these issues down. As if there is anything nice in MI?! And then it is usually followed up with some kind of unsolicited pseudo-medical advice. In my case I am also adviced to find a man pronto. (Any man is better than no man!) Followed up with advice on how to get a man. ( I am in my forties, I have figured that out by now... Just decided that for the time being I am much better off on my own, thank you very much ). Apperently society at large has something against us single girls as well! Especially when we choose to be single. People really dont like to hear me say that I choose to be single because it makes me happy, after staying too long in a really bad marriage.