geis ((hugz))
Sorry to hear you can't even use EFT, would just watching the video help maybe? (The woman in the 1st video seemed nice...) But I understand if you prefer not to. Thanks for explaining.
It's difficult cause there are new people on these threads too, maybe you could post links to previous threads with a 'please read' if you post something like this thread again? Or a general disclaimer in the 1st post that you don't wish advice, just support... (even if some people may have a hard time distinguishing the two.. me including, sometimes, it seems

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I have a headache and a quite strong cold and it's 'that time of month'... so I apologize if I can't be that much of support right now... Hope other people will be. Nobody trained us for this kind of support, so different people react in different ways...
You've really been through a lot and it can be difficult to know what to say...
Open Eyes, I agree that one mustn't rely solely on 'the system', and it's great that you and your husband have been able to help so many... For geis, I'm thinking online support is the most realistic idea at this time... or an online job or something like that... I thought of crowdfunding/fundraising where she could stay anonymous too.. And keeping fingers crossed for new housing!
geis, of course you matter!! you're important and wonderful! I've worried about you a lot, didn't know what to say half the time (or more) and still don't... So, really sorry if anything I wrote offended or upset you... It's good that you tell these things so we can improve, ideally ... ((hugz))